Stop adding 'In Progress' and 'Overdue' statuses to civicrm_contribution.contribution_status_id option group

This has been around as a back burner project for a while but didn't have it's own gitlab ... tada

A long long time ago contribution, contribution recur, payments, pledges and pledge payments shared the same option group for their status & some nasty magic massaged values in and out. Overdue and In progress 'leaked' from these other entities onto the contribution in a long-ago regression but was never intended as a contribution status option value in core.

The plan is to stop adding those statuses on NEW installs. (We might add a message on non-new installs that have them but we don't really want to remove them).

Unfortunately this has been a slow-burner as the tests found code places referencing the wrong option group list in many cases - I've slowly been whittling these down & as of writing three tests are failing

https://github.com/civicrm/civicrm-core/pull/23074

Note that this was notified in a long-ago dev-digest and steps have been taken in the Sepa extension (the only one identified as using these statuses) to ensure they are present