and reminding everyone to always use buildkit

Add links for phpstorm xdebug configuration

Move them into the dedicated page on PhpStorm. Why? Tim has expressed
some concern about the potential difficulty (and slippery slope) of
starting to maintain IDE-specific docs. I like the PhpStorm page, but I
can see where he's coming from to a certain extent. As such, I think it
will be a good compromise if we can keep all the IDE-specific stuff as
consolidated as possible.