Update hook_civicrm_emailProcessorContact.md

Formatting and wording

Restructure to better incorporate Symfony hooks

Cmtool usage updates

Minor tweaks on recommendations

Correct URL for Extension Review Request

JIRA is dead.

Actually I think we should put the 'other platforms' first & the more specific options at the end though

Buildkit: update php, nodejs, mysql versions

Add in Change log describing the changes made to API for dev/core#475

Moved Jira to "out of use" as it's now been archived.

See: https://github.com/civicrm/civicrm-core/pull/14184

Need SUPER privilege for database user

Added triage guidelines to the docs

Update hook_civicrm_contact_get_displayname.md